Rise of Samantha: Introducing the Theory of Baggage
Samantha Lewinski
Author Bio
Field of writing is in the realm rethinking topics that are based on human engagements that challenge daily life in general. That includes relationships, personal change management, and self improvement. Current book is based on analytics from 100’s of conversation, surveys, book research, and living a life with many challenges. The key factor in my writing is how to get people to look inward and think of new ways for self improvement that are not typically found in the market. Simple tools that cut straight to the chase and offer a solution. Though change involves hard work…there is always a benefit and I can truly state that has been part of my life!
Description
Who in the world is Samantha Lewinski? Give me one minute and it may change your life. The exchange of relationship stories are the number one topic on the planet for women and men. This book is based on 100’s of personal interviews, analysis of online dating, literature research, and professional discussions. What was found is there are ten basic relationship conversations people have over and over again, on the phone, at the coffee shop, the office, wherever they may meet. Sure, you may think you have a unique relationship scenario but guess what it’s not true. The content is written around a wonderful idea (TOB) of how to change the essence of your relationships from three angles found within the book. These three ideas come together in a heartfelt story that will get you to stop, think, and listen. The writing is a blending of true-life stories and it will make you laugh, ponder, and warm your heart to find a path to change the fabric of your relationships through the eyes of Samantha! 🙂
Book excerpt
“Dear, not to hurt your feelings or anything, but do you really want to know what guys get crazy about?” asked David.
I had never really asked a guy such a question, and maybe this is a good way to gain some insight why I never get second dates. What may I be overlooking in myself, but in turn lament with my friends about all the time? I have to consider this guy has money, great looks, is well groomed, but willing and ready to give me his perceptions of us girls… listen, listen, listen.
“Sure David, let’s put the cards on the table!” I said, ready to get back into the game.
“Well to start out with, we hear different things than women. I know that may not make a lot of sense, but we do,” said David.
“Sure you have all your television shows, dating advice, communication, respect, honor, and all the other assorted psychobabble stuff… but at the end of day, we get wigged on much simpler things,” said David.
Well this should be interesting since I had read several dating books, and all that stuff appeared to make sense, but when applied in the real world, it was more like a movie that does not end well. I hope it just doesn’t come down to bagging a girl in bed for him…that would not sit well with me and for sure, I would get up and walk out right now. Nevertheless, this is free advice, and I need to listen and respond with calmness.
“Sam, we live in a very complex world, and the days of white picket fence, mom and pop stores, and black and white television are long gone!” said David.
“I can tell you day-to-day, I carry a lot on my shoulders, in terms of the people who work for me, large budgets, and delivery problems. I do not have much time to mess around with petty stuff,” said David.
Petty stuff, well that is interesting, I hope that does not include me as a side note to his busy and complicated life in the corporate world.
“Sam, here is the situation; I don’t want to be in a needy relationship where I have to recover some lost soul from debt, ex-husbands, kids, emotional instability, and stuff like that. I don’t have the time and energy for such things,” said David.
“Well, I didn’t know that I fell into that category for you David,” I said quietly.
I need to push the pause button here since this is getting too deep. I thought this date would transpire into a night out on the town, some dancing, a few drinks, and maybe a kiss tonight. Now we were moving into a deep analysis of my personality and that has no value for my self-esteem.
Author Website
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